"Officially, they command no power or prestige. Unofficially, they control everything"
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TIMEasia.com columnist Peter McKillop.
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Wednesday, May 2, 2001
First Impressions
Columnist Peter McKillop first discovered Japan through books and television. Then he moved there
Wednesday, April 26, 2001
Geishas & Godzillas
Photo Essay: Which is odder -- the image of Japan in Hollywood movies or the image of Japan
in its own films?
Wednesday, April 25, 2001
Pure Art
Photo Essay: Japanese fashion designers have revolutionized clothes -- and thrill crowds each year at Paris Fashion Week -- but none head a major Western fashion house. Why?
Tuesday, April 24, 2001
Generation Gap
A Korean boy's love of Japanese animation stokes memories of wartime occupation in his grandmother
Monday, April 23, 2001
Through His Son's Eyes
TIME's Tim Larimer found raising his young son, Jack, in Tokyo took some time to get used to
Friday, April 20, 2001
Do You Take This Man?
Being the wife of a foreigner in Japan has its ups and down, says TIME reporter Hiroko Tashiro
Friday, April 20, 2001
Discovering Her True Self
TIME's Sachiko Sakamaki didn't realize she was Japanese -- until she moved to America at age 23
Friday, April 20, 2001
Kobans and Robbers
An obscure Japanese import is racing across America -- reducing crime and increasing safety along the way
Thursday, April 19, 2001
Exceptions to the Rule
It's easy to see Japan as dull and boring, says TIME's Ginny Parker, but below the surface is another world
Wednesday, April 18, 2001
Why...You...Lazy Octopus!
Japanese curse words lose something in the translation
Wednesday, April 18, 2001
My Japan
TIME correspondent Donald Macintyre spent 12 years in Japan--and found a country less than frank and open
Tuesday, April 17, 2001
'The Hardest Part Is Wearing a Kimono for Hours on End'
TIME talks to Liza Dalby, the first and only Westerner to become a geisha
Friday, April 13, 2001
'They're the Backbone of this Nation'
Japanese women are more than cute faces who know how to dress, argues columnist Peter McKillop
Thursday, April 12, 2001
'I Admire Their Attention to Detail and Quality'
Brazilian-born Carlos Ghosn on reinventing Nissan, bridging cultural gaps, and learning Japanese
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'They're the Backbone of this Nation'
Japanese women are more than cute faces who know how to dress, argues columnist Peter Mckillop
It is that time of year in Japan when the mind can only think beautiful
thoughts. The spring sky is crisp and blue. The cherry blossoms have come and
gone with all their magnificent beauty.
So is it any wonder that I'm reminded of perhaps Japan's greatest asset: its
women. Don't get me wrong! I love women from all cultures. My wife is British
and she is very beautiful and I love her very much. However, I have a special
fondness for the spirit and beauty of Japanese women.
Today, for example, my department is moving office. Am I lifting a finger? No
way! Without complaint, my staff is busy packing boxes, laughing and having an
absolutely wonderful time executing a mundane task. I'm sure that if I asked to
help they wouldn't know what to do. I'm not expected to work, and if I did, it
would make everyone uncomfortable. So I'm pretending to be busy while I write
this column and then I hope to slip away for an Easter weekend. My staff,
meanwhile, will probably spend much of the weekend moving the office. And did I
tell you about how they pack? The precision and care borders on art.
Japanese women, particularly during spring, are quite a sight. The winter finery
melts away into a burst of fresh, new fashion that warms the heart of the
world's leading designers -- Japan is a key export market. It's not that
Japanese women are drop-dead beautiful. With their boyish physiques,
snaggleteeth and protruding ears, they rarely end up as uber-models or in People
magazine's "Most Beautiful" issue.
Still there is something. Perhaps it is the grace and elegance in which they
carry themselves. Or perhaps it's the exquisite care they take in putting on
makeup or the latest designer dress. Perhaps it's the extraordinary politeness
they extend to all strangers. For as long as foreigners have visited Japan, the
spell Japanese women have cast on them has remained unbroken.
All this, though, is the world of geisha cliché. True, but cliché. The women
of Japan are a lot more than cute faces who know how to dress well. Spend any
time here and you quickly come to realize that they are the backbone of this
culture. They work harder, are more creative, more determined, and more focused
than their male brethren. At my company, women make up the majority of
positions. Like most firms in Japan, they hold few senior positions, and all of
the clerical slots. While very well paid by Japanese standards, they do not
command the big salaries of the men they work for. Yet it is the assistants and
back-office staff that make this company run. I'm sure this is true in almost
every Japanese company as well.
At home, women also dominate. They raise children with a sensitivity, patience
and care that simply astounds me. They are expected to not just organize a
household, but run the finances, control the social calendar, and participate in
community responsibilities. All this, while their husbands and boyfriends refine
their golf swing, visit their favorite hostess bar, or pretend to look busy at
work until late in the evening.
Life for a woman in this country is not easy. One can still see the old hunched-
back women crippled from a lifetime of stooping to grow rice, or clean house.
Yet a woman's life has its rewards, I'm told. Officially, they command no power
or prestige. Unofficially, they control everything. Behind that polite smile is
a steely determination developed from centuries of flirtatious subjugation. And
they are a strong-willed lot, and almost always get what they want.
With the men of Japan completely incapable of fixing the nation's woes, perhaps
it is time for the women to take over. However, there is one barrier to this:
Japanese women are far too smart to actually want to do this.
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