Conversation: No-Fault Divorce

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I think we've been giving parents the wrong advice. Children would feel much better, and they wouldn't carry this sense of "My own relationships are going to fail" into adulthood--children of divorce marry less and divorce more--if parents prepared their children by being honest with them. Not giving them bedroom details of sexual infidelity, but being honest with them about what caused the breakup. Divorce isn't in the genes; divorce is an avoidable human error. There's a high potential for damage, but I don't think we've helped parents help their children avoid it.

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